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<p>[QUOTE="clutteredcloset49, post: 1131, member: 85"]lilfont -</p><p>I don't know what your previous id was on the old board, nor do I care. I've never understood the desire of some to find out who others are.</p><p>I do want to say I appreciate your directness, as I am the same. </p><p>I agree that we all have a way of stating things differently, and sometimes because we are direct we are considered rude. When in fact that is not the case. Usually, it is simply a case of trying to say things clearly so it isn't misunderstood, as people tend to read things into answers that wasn't meant.</p><p>Sometimes my directness is misunderstood which leaves me standing outside looking in.</p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><p>I'd like to also speak to the divide between sellers and buyers on the other board. It is something that I noticed also. </p><p><br /></p><p>Ebay started as a flea market on the net. Now think of your average garage seller/flea market seller. They are not dealers or retailers. They are clearing from home. </p><p><br /></p><p>Ebay comes along and they realize they can make a little extra cash selling regularly. They still are not dealers or retailers. Not all have not become business minded overnight. </p><p><br /></p><p>Ebay decides to change the rules, from garage saler to retail outlet. Now they are expecting all sellers on their site to become actual retailers. Following what most good retailers would do. Accept returns, bend over backwards to appease a customer. </p><p><br /></p><p>Someone at a garage sale is most likely is most likely not going to take something back. Nor are they always going to be polite if you run down their merchandise, as it is who they are. They are more likely to tell you to leave their property.</p><p><br /></p><p>Something ebay does not want their sellers to do. They are looking for the return customers. Which only the sellers who understood retail tactics would accomplish.</p><p><br /></p><p>Hence the division between sellers and buyers. The sellers getting mad at their customers were the ones who didn't quite understand retail.</p><p>It's a matter of mind set. </p><p>I hope I made sense.[/QUOTE]</p><p><br /></p>
[QUOTE="clutteredcloset49, post: 1131, member: 85"]lilfont - I don't know what your previous id was on the old board, nor do I care. I've never understood the desire of some to find out who others are. I do want to say I appreciate your directness, as I am the same. I agree that we all have a way of stating things differently, and sometimes because we are direct we are considered rude. When in fact that is not the case. Usually, it is simply a case of trying to say things clearly so it isn't misunderstood, as people tend to read things into answers that wasn't meant. Sometimes my directness is misunderstood which leaves me standing outside looking in. I'd like to also speak to the divide between sellers and buyers on the other board. It is something that I noticed also. Ebay started as a flea market on the net. Now think of your average garage seller/flea market seller. They are not dealers or retailers. They are clearing from home. Ebay comes along and they realize they can make a little extra cash selling regularly. They still are not dealers or retailers. Not all have not become business minded overnight. Ebay decides to change the rules, from garage saler to retail outlet. Now they are expecting all sellers on their site to become actual retailers. Following what most good retailers would do. Accept returns, bend over backwards to appease a customer. Someone at a garage sale is most likely is most likely not going to take something back. Nor are they always going to be polite if you run down their merchandise, as it is who they are. They are more likely to tell you to leave their property. Something ebay does not want their sellers to do. They are looking for the return customers. Which only the sellers who understood retail tactics would accomplish. Hence the division between sellers and buyers. The sellers getting mad at their customers were the ones who didn't quite understand retail. It's a matter of mind set. I hope I made sense.[/QUOTE]
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